my grandfather meet paisano many years ago, he said he was rich, and had everything he ever wanted, he had a family, beautiful wife. (my grandfather took pictures of him and his family). my grandfather said that he had everything, and then lost it all. he got involved into the "badder" things in life (drugs,alchol), it takes a true man to rise up and overcome with what he had went through many would have just given up on life at that point but he moved on, and became a friend to many on the island. We never understand how fast we can lose everything in one second, and how the world can change to be such a different place! he will be missed!