that's a good one, jim. or one just of personal experiences seen or felt there.
i know we get weird and silly on the gossip thread, but many of us are really just like tori. i don't drink either, maybe one sometimes, and i am 37. i certainly am not skinnydipping there, or pool hopping. it was one of the reasons i stayed up north last time. quiet.
but there are all kinds, and all wish to share what they want or express their friendships in their own ways.
good luck, and keep in touch, all!