Turnbun:

As I offered my apologies in advance, I do so now in arrears. Please note my question was a sincere one, though I can understand why on this board you would doubt the sincerity of posts. I do not recall "struting my individuality" and so am at a loss at your accusations of duplicity.

However, since there is a more pleasing topic on hand, let me also congratuate you on ushering in a new little one to the world. As I've experienced on 4 occasions, you are rapidly approaching the most exciting time with your new (first?) addition. Not that I regret any moment of my fatherhood, but I have to say the time between 2-5 is the most wonderous of them all, so many questions, so much discovery!

And to lead from that grand topic to one less so, may I say that that was the point of my question, trying to discover the commercial nature of random posters. It was certainly nothing personal, I hope you do not take it as such.

And one more word of advice that you can do with what you wish, keep on being that stay at home mom as long as you can, there is no substitute for everpresent motherhood, it is a shame more are not able to afford to do so.