Luvnlife and Bing Crosby have some very similar qualities. Once poster above (nameless for now) inadvertently(?) hit on one of them.
You certainly received lots of commentary Law, and I do not think I could add anything to the dialogue (or diatribe in one poster's case) to persuade your argument one way or the other. It's all pretty much been said.
I wonder if we would be even having this discussion if 1) the 15 yr old was NOT on probation or 2) and this may be a stretch, the 15 yr old was a white female whose father was a "well respected citizen"