Respect WO to the R! I feel bad for what's her name, SeaHo? Her remarks disturb me. I mean, jes because she know bred gotta wife and pickney don mek it right to mess wit him. One's action affect all they touch.

Her post just stated to me she got no respect for self, let alone others. A rather Girls Gone Wild, I don't give a %*&(! trip.

Chris Rock has the best quote: "Since I became a father my highest priority in life is to keep my daughter off the pole."

(pole dancing is popular in strip clubs in the States).

I heard that! I suppose my mother had the same attitude. She was a committed and loving parent.

I refused to be another Black statistic and believe me, how I came up it was a very real possibility. By the time I was 13 I had girlfriends in gangs named crap like Puppet or Chula Loca; then a several years later...my same homegirls pregnant or in jail.

I'm sure that's why Ma moved us out the ghetto. "Keep my daughters off the pole!!"

No one in my life ever called me a ho. I've never conducted myself in that manner at home or on holiday, even in my younger days. My crown is always high and blazing. My mother did alright. I think. She gave me a good foundation.

bless bliss up!