A little anecdote here. A few weeks ago my sister, who is a receptionist in an un-named clinic in an un-named city, was approached by a couple of immigrants from an un-named African country, who have a large contingent of refugees in her city. When told they should be seated and would have to wait to see the doctor, the spokesman for the group loudly said "Your country sucks", and turned to the rest who laughed uproariously. She could not reply. A good thing I wasn't there. We are good hearted generous suckers alright.

Been there, done that, the washing machine ate the T-shirt