What an interesting group of people we have going here...

Belize Mama & Jerrico...I too am an adoptee. My birth mother found me 3 years ago after doing very little research. Mine was a private adoption and I never moved until about 10 years ago...cake walk for her to find me! Anyway, she insisted that we meet, I agreed. Not that it was a disaster, but she was definitely nervous for our whole visit (about 4 days)So, she decided to end our relationship before it even really got started. She came into my life and pecked around, then flew off like a seagull after he's kicked up sand all over my lunch. Two years later she must have realized what she had done, because she has tried in her own way to make a menze. We talk a couple times a year and that's plenty for me. My point is sometimes not all reunions are meant to be...keep your gaurd up.