How funny, duh... I'm a little wrapped up in some personal business with my parents in Canada, being very ill.... and I just got it....(duh, how stupid could I be... duh!!!!!!! apparently, being involved, and worrying about what is happening with my parents got in the way of all of this) this is all about... "WHO HAS THE LAST WORD.... SO... TAKE IT... YOU TWO FIGHT IT OUT!
Jesse or Linda.... go for it... I do not care anymore... do what you want... I have other issues to deal with

Have a great day