Seashell be happy here. Everybody share a lil piece and some share more from others than others. Nothing sinister but it is just the way it is for true. No one want to be a gainer just make sure no one be the one to lose. Many groups be happy here and welcome but know it can take a while for some expat to be happy. Most do not stay and are not happy with things they simply cannot change because they came for wrong reasons.