hey toad. self righteous?? gee i wish i could be so. i just have too many failings to consider my self to be self righteous. but i know one thing. stupid things done in one's youth can last forever. just trying to give a kid some advise. there are realities in life that at 18 one might overlook or just might not be aware of. i have a 21 year old that i'd hope would get some solid advise from a board like this.