You ask good questions and you sure got some good answers. I came here eight times before making the complete move. It was about trip #5 when I first thought about living here - part time. Fate has a way of moving us - literally. I made a deposit on a small condo unit just before I went back to California in 2002 only to find my long time (5 year) share rental guy had bought a house and moved out. What to do? I had planned to take in a 2nd share renter and keep the 4th bedroom and 3rd bath for my frequent visits.
However, I did not want to be an absentee landlady to someone I didn't know, So I bit the bullet, called the builder here and said I wanted the biggest unit and sold my house.
This made it a 100% commitment and I have no regrets three years later.
What I do know is unless you have some interests that you are passionate about you will be bored where ever you are. I'm a scuba diver, underwater photographer/videographer and writer. I read for about two hours every morning and spend w-a-y too much time on the computer. I am pleased to say I don't have to do anything so I can do anything I please. I even want to find time someday to learn to paint.
I try to learn about the local plants, especially the fruits and vegetables. I have an ice cream maker and since it is hard to buy cream here have learned to make sorbet, gelato and granitta. Most are great successes and the failures I cook into jelly, jam or butter. I have come up with some amazing taste treats.
I like to sew by hand, yes it takes a long time, but I have plenty of that and hate to iron - so I don't. I wear shoes only when I leave the island. I can't sweep (back problems) so have a wonderful cleaning lady who is happy to have the job. A local guy has a great laundry service and I can't wash & dry for what he does it for (and it comes back folded and sorted).
I don't drink alcohol, smoke anything or use any illegal drugs. Some groceries are twice what they cost in the states so I mostly buy local foods. The medical care I have received here is wonderful - no long waits and costs very little.
The part that makes all this really rich is the wonderful friends I have who come to visit me from the states and always ask what can they bring me. I try to limit it to one set per month but sometimes they get bunched up. They do not pay me to stay here but they buy the dinners. That takes care of my need to eat out.
Bottom line - I am usually way behind - but that's the story of my life.
I have made some lifelong friends here - and some enemies. If you want to be loved you have to take the risk of being hated. Otherwise - who care?
There are all kinds of community projects that need help. We just don't call it work or volunteerism as there is always someone who would like to turn you in. Your donations are always appreciated. I belong to a self help group, the Chamber of Commerce and the Neighborhood Watch. I like my own company and love my alone time. I tell people that I am the luckiest person they know.
I did not burn my bridges and have a number of people who keep a bed available for me anytime I want to come for a visit. I go to the states once a year for my major medical needs (HMO doesn't want to pay outside the program).
Do your research, both external and internal then try it - you might like it!
