sir isaac, guess you didnt see that K-Y is allowed

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laurie, boyfriend just did same as you: gave up $$ at new job in exchange for more vaca time, and specifically requested 2 strait weeks next year so we can attempt to see SE asia.
barb, you are right too. whenever we tell folk where we've been or where we are going, they are like "OMG _ you are leaving the country??? aren't you scared?? i would never go there" or "arent the people there violent? you might get killed! i hear they hate americans!" etc. americans are totally ignorant (in the true sense of the word). they have no knowledge of the outside world, no concept that people are people everywhere, and that travelling expands one's mind and experience.
so, rhonda, that is why everyone up here go to the jersey shore...most think we are nuts to travel out of a 200 mi radius, except for orlando or vegas (where you would never catch me again).
even when i first went to bz in '93, someone told us at the aqirport in texas that belizeans will cut off our hands to steal our jewelery (no shit, she really said that), and we might get killed. well, you guys know how it turned out...
now that we are on our second lives here, we decided a few months ago that there will be no more living to work anymore, we work to make just enuff to travel more. life is too short, and i have a LONG list of destinations!