One last post. To all of you who sent PM's, thanks. The "bashing" was especially hurtful because it came from a person I thought was a friend. As I said before, the majority of you "posters" are amazing human beings. This board is a wonderful tool for the new visitor, frequent visitor and SP local.
Shut your eyes, take a deep breath and say a prayer for peace in the coming New Year.

"Nothing can bring you peace but yourself"