i have stayed in town & north & south. staying on the north end you have to rely on boatsto get u there. i do not like staying in town, just my opinion, many do. i prefer the south, as it is secluded but a fun 20 min golfcart ride into town. there are many good places to shop/eat out of town too. make your first trip an adventure!!
my choice (ok, group groan) is by far caribe island resort. it has seclusion, gorgeous beach, a bar/rest, pool, A/C, cable tv, free bikes & kayaks, suites with kitchens, beautiful views.