Pedro2 said: I don't actually agree with your analysis of what hurts the most, Seashell - I think it's the fact that you've been violated and were totally vulnerable.

seashell replies: You are quite right Pedro2. I was too flip in my post to Stephania. I've never been mugged but I've had my home broken into, and the bad guy was still in there, when I arrived.

I've also had my keys go missing when out for the evening, so I know where Stephania is coming from there too. It's pretty hard to get any shut-eye the night before the locksmith arrives!!

A fish and a bird can fall in love, but where will they build their nest?