You guys are great - thanks for the info. Let me give you some back ground:

I had already told my daughter she is not going out unsupervised before I posted this - but what do i know right, I'm only a parent. So when I posted the question I knew the next time she went on the forum to do 'research' she would be enticed by the "single females" post (she did figure out it was me). Now that she has heard from others she is not so willing to keep ragging on me! Sometimes you just have to find a way to make things make sense for kids. She is a stubborn one that one. Sorry didn't mean to trick you all - just her!