I'm so sorry your family has had such a difficult time, ArtZ. I think almost all of us can identify with you on that level. But, I can almost guarantee the things that have happened to your family were not because of marijuana. Perhaps the harder drugs, but weed is very quiet, issues are not enhanced, the most you would do is eat yourself into a coma, or laugh yourself into a stupor. If it is laced with stronger stuff, such a thing can happen, but it is pretty rare. If you are prone to trying to get that elusive buzz, you might go for the stronger stuff. Legalizing weed wouldn't do anything to further or limit that from happening. If someone wants to get the big guns, they will, and the government's control of weed wouldn't stop them.