...Now that she has heard from others she is not so willing to keep ragging on me! Sometimes you just have to find a way to make things make sense for kids. She is a stubborn one that one. Sorry didn't mean to trick you all - just her! ...

Please excuse my bluntness, but if you need a chat room to enforce the rules in your house, your child is not ready to be left unaccompanied.

Your daughter should never leave your sight, until you have regained parental control.