But, but, what about us poor white guys, who for some reason don't fall into our own "protected" categories? We're pretty much screwed. Can't play a race card, a gender card, a heterosexual card. We have to settle for being an **shole on our own merits.

Seriously tho Amanda, hit the nail on the head. Lots of folks would rather whip out one of their trump cards to avoid being required to stand on their own merits. If you have a need to classify yourself as anything other than just a human being, be prepared for the flak.

Wasn't there something posted awhile back on "white noise"? he he he.

Been there, done that, the washing machine ate the T-shirt